The mom-to-be opens up about her first pregnancy with ET after announcing her engagement to Nelly in April.
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| Am exclusive photo from Ashanti's maternity shoot |
Becoming a mother has always been in Ashanti's future, but even she didn't expect it would come along with an engagement to Nelly!
"Never in a million years did I think we would be here," the 43-year-old singer tells ET's Deidre Behar in an exclusive interview. "Ten years ago -- maybe yes -- but after our breakup, you know, I didn't even think we'd ever have a conversation again."
Ashanti, and Nelly, 49, who rekindled their longtime, on-again, off-again romance last year after calling it quits in 2013, have become inseparable since they sent the R&B world into a frenzy after being spotted together for the first time last year.
The pair began their roller-coaster romance back in 2003, which at one point the rapper claimed was "based in the media," before officially calling it quits in 2013. Although they played coy about their status for years, Ashanti confirmed in March 2015 that they were a couple until two years prior.
Nearly a decade later, the two unexpectedly reconnected at Fat Joe and Ja Rule's Verzuz battle in 2021. Nelly got Ashanti's number from DJ City and, well, here she is three years later, engaged and taking ET behind the scenes of her maternity shoot with photographer Derek Blanks, where she shared how Nelly reacted to her pregnancy.
"I was so shocked and happy and emotional," Ashanti says of confirming her pregnancy. "I always dreamed about it. I wanted it so, so bad and I just feel like the timing was perfect."
The maternity shoot is on the beach, which Ashanti tells ET is "authentically" her.
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| Ashanti and Nelly |
"To be on the beach, out in nature and the sunshine, that's what makes me smile and makes me happy genuinely from within," the singer explains. "Then, obviously, the princess girly, glam Ashanti vibe is there as well."
The "Foolish" singer shares that she suspected she was expecting when she missed her period -- which was after the viral December 2023 incident where Nelly rubbed her belly while the pair was performing onstage at the rapper's annual Black and White Ball in St. Louis.
"To be on the beach, out in nature and the sunshine, that's what makes me smile and makes me happy genuinely from within," the singer explains. "Then, obviously, the princess girly, glam Ashanti vibe is there as well."
The "Foolish" singer shares that she suspected she was expecting when she missed her period -- which was after the viral December 2023 incident where Nelly rubbed her belly while the pair was performing onstage at the rapper's annual Black and White Ball in St. Louis.
Ashanti announced her pregnancy in an Instagram video which shows the singer getting ready for a performance. After one of her handlers checks in on her, Ashanti's mom, Tina Douglas, checks in a second time, asking the singer how much time she needs until she's ready. Ashanti emerges -- dressed to the nines -- and responds, "I'm gonna need about nine months," prompting Tina to express shock at the pregnancy news.
"I have been so blessed. This has been an amazing pregnancy, I have zero symptoms," Ashanti tells ET of her pregnancy. "I'm still performing. So I'm so happy and so blessed."
Although the singer has been able to keep up with the demands of her work, she admits that it's been hard to change how her body has been changing. "The growing bump, [there's] nothing I can do about it!" she says. But she also admits that having the news out there has been a "breath of fresh air," even for two "really private people."
"I always knew I wanted it to happen, you know, I always had dreams, I had visions it was going to happen," she shares. "Never in a million years did I think [Nelly and I] would be here. Like 10 years ago maybe, but after our breakup, I didn't even think we'd have a conversation again."
"Honestly if I could be like a small portion of what my mom is, I would be amazingly spectacular, out of this world. Honestly," she vows. "I think my mom was just the epitome of unconditional love, it's just unparalleled. You think of a selfless person, especially with my sister and I, and everyone says the same thing -- Nelly, all the people in my life, all my peers, friends, the team. They're like, 'Nah. Momager, that's a different bond.' She's built very different."
Quipping that they call Tina the "General," Ashanti says she looks forward to being the "Mini General." And, although she's keeping mum on the baby's sex and their list of potential names, the singer has no qualms about sharing her hopes about how she and Nelly will tackle parenting.
Ashanti says she's grateful that her fiancé already has experience in the area. "I think he's going to be amazing, he's so good with his kids. When they have a chance to spend time together, he makes it count," she gushes of her future husband. "They have all had to make sacrifices because of [his] career and the traveling and them growing up, you know. But when they are together it's the best thing in the world to watch."
"I'm excited about seeing this little human version of myself and the person that I love so much be here," the singer gushes. "I'm really looking forward to having an extension of both of us, be with us, and watching that spirit grow. It's an amazing thing."
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